Dangers of Internet Slang for Kids
Why Chat Room Lingo?
Kids these days are learning far more at an earlier age than their parents did. Although most kids are introduced to computers in grade school, it is more typical that these kids have already been navigating the World-Wide Web for a long time before that in their own homes. This is progress and can be a positive thing, but parents need to be on top of what their kids are doing online at all times.
You might be like some parents who view the computer as a foreign object. Though it is a useful and mostly harmless object, it can hurt your kids if you don’t monitor what they are doing on it. Part of learning about the Internet is just getting online, looking around and using common sense. Take a class to become more familiar with the computer and cyberspace if that’s what it takes.
Online, kids have their own language when they talk with friends in chat rooms and on the boards (that’s message boards). Unlike the language they use with their friends every day, the online chat room lingo needs a translation. Call it Internet slang, text slang, or chat slang, all of those three, four, and five letter abbreviations have meanings and some will be defined here.
Why do you need to learn about Internet slang?
As you probably are already aware, everyone on the Internet is not who they say they are. A certain amount of mystery can be liberating when chatting online, but as discussed in one of my previous blog posts, “5 Guidelines for Safe Computer Use at Home” it is also a way for predators to get in contact with your child. Predators learn the lingo to make it easier for them to pretend they are a 14-year old boy or girl and attract your son or daughter, even if in reality that person is a 50-year old man.
As a parent, you can also learn to decipher what your child is saying to their new friends online. Some of the lingo borders on sexually explicit. If your kids have never been exposed to that kind of Internet slang, or the person on the other end shows an interest in them, that lingo can be used to lure them away from your home and you. You can also find reliable software out there to monitor your child’s activity online for you.
Internet Slang, Unmasked
Here are some of the more common abbreviations that kids use:
- POS – Parent Over Shoulder
- P911 – My Parents are in the room
- GAL – Get A Life
- CYAL8R – See Ya Later
- LOL – Laughing Out Loud
- ROFL – Rolling On the Floor Laughing
- JTLYK – Just To Let You Know
- ILY – I Love You
- SWAK – Sealed With A Kiss
- H&K – Hugs and Kisses
- F2F – Face To Face
- A/S/L or ASL – Age/Sex/Location?
- ADN – Any Day Now
- B/F or BF – Boyfriend
- G/F or GF – Girlfriend
- WTGP? – Want to go private (meet in a private chat room)
There are a host of other abbreviations and some are quite explicit. You can find a more complete list here: http://www.web-friend.com/help/lingo/chatslang.html. The previous list is just to get you started. Predators sometimes ask for personal meetings and for personal information about your child, so it is important to know what ASL means. Disgustingly enough, they may even consider your child their love interest.
Kids generally think they are immortal and that they wouldn’t be fooled by some one online, and using Internet slang is their own secret code to keep parents away, but don’t let it. They could be getting into more trouble than you or they realize and you can help to prevent it by knowing what they are doing online.
Come back in a few days and read about Webcams and Online Safety.
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Sleep Well!
raelynn @ Kidz Comfort
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